<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-248860116342632818</id><updated>2011-04-21T12:47:04.437-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Ko</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://esasllqkqfnsei.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/248860116342632818/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://esasllqkqfnsei.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>locqb</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10399762416501437223</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>8</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-248860116342632818.post-4550127662579237013</id><published>2008-09-12T12:54:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2008-09-12T12:54:57.272-07:00</updated><title type='text'>When Your Life is Too Full You Run Out of Space to Grow</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Most of us keep very busy. There is no end &lt;a href=http://www.shop24-7-365.com/Finance/Mortgage-Refinance-HomeEquity/home-equity-loan.php&gt;Home equity line of credit&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href=http://www.japan.pop-cult.com/machine-girl.html&gt;Machine Girl&lt;/a&gt; chores and duties, no natural or prescribed stopping point to sit and rest for a while. We overlap our tasks while, at the same time, we complain we have no time to ourselves. No matter how much we do in a day, &lt;a href=http://www.collinwood.info/Gourmet-Coffee/coffee-bean-history.php&gt;Fine Coffee&lt;/a&gt; never seems to be enough. We are always thinking of new ways to stay occupied and can always find something important to do.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We are taught the value of hard work and use this philosophy to rationalize our compulsive behavior. Our downtime is playing tennis or going to the gym, never just spending time alone. We take our children to school, dance class, piano lessons, and softball all in the same day, and make sure that every minute is accounted for. We pass on to them an unspoken law-keep moving and avoid quiet time at any cost.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Our crazy pace fools us for a while. We interpret the constant movement as a full life and keep waiting to love the life we have created. We think we are moving forward, climbing the ladder, but we keep going in circles, as though one foot were nailed to the floor. We falsely identify ourselves with the things we do and unwisely derive a sense of self-importance from our hectic life. But we become disappointed when our life doesn't deliver. We are unfulfilled and really tired.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We tell ourselves that we don't have the time to do what we want, but the truth is our life does not keep us from doing those things. We do exactly what we want and create a life to satisfy those wants. We may have to care for a sick relative or work eighteen hours a day, but if our need to stay disconnected from our feelings is stronger than our desire to have time to ourselves, we will keep ourselves distracted forever, regardless of the task at hand. This is not a judgment call. It is simply the way it is. We survive moment to moment the best way we can, and if that includes being so busy that we don't have time to feel, so be it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Chapter 34 from Reality Works Copyright  2002 Chandra Alexander&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We do not do this consciously. We actually think we are doing something good for ourselves, but we are not. Our frenzied mind never rests long enough for us to get in touch with our deepest feelings and needs. When we keep every inch of our life stuffed to overflowing, we have no room to grow.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If we sit quietly just for a second, something amazing happens. Out of the nothingness, we begin to imagine and expand. 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To learn more about her books and CDs, visit her website at  www.Coachgirl.com"&gt;www.Coachgirl.com&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/248860116342632818-4550127662579237013?l=esasllqkqfnsei.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://esasllqkqfnsei.blogspot.com/feeds/4550127662579237013/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=248860116342632818&amp;postID=4550127662579237013' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/248860116342632818/posts/default/4550127662579237013'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/248860116342632818/posts/default/4550127662579237013'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://esasllqkqfnsei.blogspot.com/2008/09/when-your-life-is-too-full-you-run-out.html' title='When Your Life is Too Full You Run Out of Space to Grow'/><author><name>locqb</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10399762416501437223</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-248860116342632818.post-9192059132546153872</id><published>2008-09-11T07:38:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2008-09-11T07:38:28.805-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Article Writing Mistakes - 7 To Avoid</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Making your articles available for reprints &lt;a href=http://www.shop24-7-365.com/Finance/Student-Loan-Consolidation/student-loan-consolidation.php&gt;bill consolidation loan student&lt;/a&gt; other ezine publishers and webmasters is the cornerstone strategy in building an avalanche of pre-qualified visitors to your website.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you want your articles to be picked up and massively distributed by others, here are 7 common mistakes to avoid:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Article Mistake #1 Too many grammatical, spelling, and punctuation errors.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In addition to having your article proofed by others, you may also want to be sure that you have clearly defined paragraphs. 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One of the questions, asked in this respect, is the one about being a culture yes or no. Although that as such is a question that can be debated endlessly, fact of the matter is that the narrow - sexual only - approach does not seem &lt;a href=http://www.shop24-7-365.com/Finance/debt-consolidation.php&gt;best secured loan&lt;/a&gt; cover all aspects of erotic power exchange. So, are "we" a culture? Below is at least one answer to that question.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;First of all: what is a culture? There are of course various definitions, but personally I like to use the one given by anthropologist Ruth Benedict (which is the more or less generally accepted one in the scientific community): "culture is a more or less consistant pattern of thought and action with a characteristic purpose that pervades the forms of behavior and institutions of a society." Hence, a culture is defined by a set of patterns.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Are "we" a "culture" (as in a religious culture, a national culture for example)? If culture is defined as being that total and all-embracing the answer to that question is NO, unless of course you would argue that BDSM-views and opinions have any specific relevance to and influence on social structures, general behavior patterns or institutions (which I personally consider quite unlikely). However, if you take the definition but add the words "limited" and "some", the answer is: yes, we are.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The opposite of the above definition, by the way, is true for the BDSM-community: i.e., the world around us (society) has a direct influence on us (general perceptions, legislation, prejudice, political and religious views, to only name a few) and not in the way they have as a general factor in everyone's life, but directly in (and as a result of) the ideals the community as well as individuals within that community strive(s) and stand(s) for.&lt;br&gt;There are other methods to find out whether or not BDSM is a culture. One of them is to try and establish if there are concepts, views and behavior patterns within a "group" that seem to be more or less generally accepted and are at the root of the group behavior (chaos-theory).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Behavior patterns&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Thus the question is: are there such concepts, views and behavior patterns?&lt;br&gt;The answer here - in my view - is yes, there are: there is a more or less generally accepted lingo (that at least is generally recognized), there are concepts (voluntary, imformed consentual, safe and sane for example, negotiation for example, safewords for example). We may not be to good at exactly describing them, but there are norms and values: in general the community has a pretty good general idea about what is acceptable behavior in the group and what is not. In the same way there are (again not specifically written down) certain more or less generally accepted ethics.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And next to that there even is a more or less "creative process" based on the group's ideas (design, clothing, art, photography, writing and more) that usually is recognized as "belonging to or within the group".&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Finally, do we have specific and more or less general behavior patterns? The answer again is yes. Coming out for example, finding information, communication and even some negative ones, like taking things personal and concentrating on personal ideas and interpretations as opposed to more general ones.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So, this method also seems to proof there at least is something indicating a culture, albeit not a very well studied and described one (but then again many cultures are not very well, or not at all described, such as many tribal cultures and the entire Maya culture for example).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Is all this enough to claim "we" are/have a culture. With sufficient modesty to say that we will probably not make a difference in changing the world's general ethics my answer to that question is yes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Are we a sub-culture? A sub-culture is a derivate from something else. Personally, I can not see where we are a derivate of something else, so no, I wouldn't say we are a subculture. And this is where I think we first meet some arguments of the "outside world" that tries to narrow BDSM down to a form of sexual behavior (and to many preferably a sexual deviation). Why would the outside world do that? The answer in my mind is obvious: fear. Sexuality in many (especially Western) societies is something that has always been looked at with double standards. Religions for example (and they have a traditionally strong influence on sexual behavior) have a very double standard here. On one end for example they praise the phenomena of life and giving birth, while at the same time they will condemn women the moment they show physical signs of their ability to give life (like menstruation, pregnancy and such) and call them impure. They will endorse big families with many children but at the same time condemn the act that is at the very root of reproduction.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Fear on one end and narrow minded political views about controlling people's lives on the other are what brings about this element of fear and hence the well-known rhethorical trick of creating a "common enemy" (the evil). "We" are "an evil" in that sense and this evil is described in very simple, one dimensional straight forward terms that usually have little to do with the truth. Which is only one reason to stay away from a purely sexual/psychological approach and try to put things in a somewhat broader perspective.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;What is this culture made of?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So, if we are a culture, what is that culture made off? That is where it becomes very hard. There is little research to rely on or find answers in and unfortunately any debate about trying to describe the culture will almost automatically turn into a debate about personal preferences. The reasons for this happening are actually quite simple. Most of "us" live in a very narrow, closed environment when it comes to BDSM (which is not a negative connotation but merely an observation and in itself a direct result of the general social stigmatism and prejudice) and as a result many people only have their personal ideas and feelings to go by, while on the other hand the subject itself directly hits home with almost all of us and brings out - understandable - fierce and intense emotions.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The Internet - even though a blessing in some ways - is not exactly helpful either, since the "net-community" seems to go through exactly the same growing pains the "real life community" (at least in Europe) has gone through some 15 to 20 years ago. Hence, for the moment on the Internet history is only repeating itself, which is not bad as such, since it helps the vast numbers of newcomers, but is of little or no help when it comes to try and debate, research more abstract issues like this one.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Different cultures&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As for example Weinberg and Falk ("Studies in Sadomasochism", 1983) conclude, there is very little methodical and theoretical research from the sociological field available when it comes to BDSM. If any work has been &lt;a href=http://www.bubblegum-cards.com/Space-1999/index.html&gt;Space 1999 &lt;/a&gt; in this area, most of that is journalistic research and not scientific. Still, one fact is generally accepted in the scientific field (and in other areas): there are huge differences between the gay/lesbian and heterosexual BDSM-cultures.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Coming out (which to gay/lesbians is a "second coming out") for one thing is totally different, primerily because coming out as a concept is alien to the heterosexual world since it has never been a real issue. Hence there is little experience with the phenomena and whereas coming out is recognized as probably the most important stage in the life of a homosexual (and treated and respected as such), in the heterosexual world it is predominantly still ignored or undervalued.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Other main differences are in the social behavior patterns. Especially gay men - within their community - are not only more open to different forms of sexuality, it is also very common to act out preferences in a more or less public environment such as gay bars and meeting places. Try acting out your heterosexual BDSM preferences in a public bar or in the local community center and you'll have huge problems.&lt;br&gt;Also, there is a much more integrated process of accepting different preferences within the gay/lesbian community and hence there is a lot more openess and willingness to investigate, whether for personal use or just for better understanding. So yes, there ARE at least two different BDSM-cultures with their own patterns, behavior and general dynamics.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;b&gt;BDSM influence in other social areas&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;To ascertain if BDSM as such is a culture one method is to identify if the phenomena as such has any inlfuence in other social areas. This is an incomplete list of such influences.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* BDSM has a (sometimes even quite substantial) influence in areas like fashion, pop music, movie industry and art. In European countries it even has an influence on advertizing.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* BDSM has its own literature, art and fashion.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* BDSM has its own media (print and Internet)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* BDSM has its own places for gatherings (clubs, the above facilities, groups, gatherings, munches)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* BDSM has its own organisations (local, national and some - like the NLA - even internationally)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* BDSM has its own lingo, different form others, some of which influences other areas&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* BDSM has its own concepts, some of which have also been accepted in or adopted by other areas&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* BDSM is an economical factor, in the forms of products like videos, toys, gear, more or less dedicated shops, media and art galleries, clothing and such and - wether we like it or not - prostitution.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* BDSM is scientifically recognized as a phenomena of its own.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* BDSM is the subject of research in different scientific areas (psychology, psychiatry, sociology).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* BDSM is condemned by other groups, including some very influential ones.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* BDSM has lead to specific legislation to try an ban it in various countries and regions.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;* BDSM is the subject of political debates and decisionmaking.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Different cultures within the community&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Are there different cultures within hetero BDSM? I tend to think there are at least two: Maledom/femsub and Femdom/malesub. First of all, of course they have a lot in common. Probably eighty to ninety percent of their basic cultural patterns are exactly the same (albeit maybe slightly different in their format and presentation). However, there are a few basic differences that in my opinion make them different (mind you, I am not advocating one is better &lt;a href=http://www.shop24-7-365.com/Insurance/Life-Insurance/life-insurance.php&gt;life insurance quote&lt;/a&gt; the other, just different). So where are these differences?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;First of all there is a difference in social acceptance. For example, the more or less general assumption is that men can take better care of themselves when it comes to security risks. Hence, a submissive male is generally seen as "less vulnerable" when compared to female submissives. To a certain extent that is true. Male sexuality in general is more open and men are much more used to share their sexual experiences and thoughts with others than women. Men are - more than women and again generally speaking - more used to things like masturbating, exploring their sex organ and the sex organs of others and are more likely to talk about this to others and experiment. Hence they have an advantage when it comes to taking risks and coping with vulnerability. This, by the way, should not be taken as a statement that the male submissive actually is or feels less vulnerable, because this is probably not true.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Another main difference is in the difference in sexual experience. The male experience simply is a more physical one, whereas the female experience is much more mental. This brings about differences in attitude, play forms, safety issues and interaction as well as a couple of cultural differences such as the fact that female submissives are much more receptive - and have a different attitude towards - fantasy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Female submissives have other cultural differences, such as the conflict of roles (mother, career person, central function in the household/relationship and submissive) which is much more dominant to them then it is to male submissives (and usually much more of a problem). And to many there is the female (social) masochism and role-stereotyping in general (that is not good, but still very much "there").&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;By the way, here a nice example of similarities as well since this is something the lesbian world also has substantial problems with.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Male dominants - as opposed to their female counterparts - also have many differences, such as their own role conflicts (men aren't supposed to beat women and are brought up that way - in many cultures men still aren't supposed to show their softer sides, hence many have never learned how to do that). And, simply because the subs are different, the dominants are different.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There probably is a long list of other differences, one that should for example be considered is the fact that as a result of the widespread commercialization of the Femdom world, it is a lot easier for male subs to at least find a format to live out their fantasies than it is for female subs.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Is it functional to recognize such differences? I think it is. Not in an effort to conveniently cut up the cake in very tiny pieces in order to find sufficent similarities to determine one specific group, but in an effort to try and identify the differences and address them. Like brothers and sisters are part of the same family, they have their own specifics wants, needs, dynamics and interactions and understanding each other better starts with identifying and understanding the specifics of the other, identifying where differences and where similarities are. Just as it often is very counterproductive to address certain problems by only using either male or female logic (ultimately the combination of both is what usually produces result) it is not very productive to try and push everyone "into the same corset" when it comes to defining cultures. Understanding that there are similarities AND differences is what will eventually establish a better understanding of the entire group.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;General significance&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Finally, does all this have a relevance when it comes to educating and informing the outside world? Again my opinion here is a positive one. Why? Because the outside world is constantly mixing up different aspects of the different cultures, which does not help the debate nor the education. For example, whenever I am asked to participate in a television program, talkshow, do an interview or whatever on BDSM my first question for the journalist/producer will be "what BDSM?" That usually - apart from it being a very effective way to delay the entire production for a considerable period - leads to a fundamental discussion during the production phase about what the show/interview/documentary is supposed to achieve. That will automatically - usually - lead to a better understanding by the journalist(s)/producer(s) involved and will improve the quality of the end product as well as well the quality of future products by the same producer/journalist. I will do exactly the same when preparing a presentation in any other format and - for example when it comes to informing law enforcement people - one simply has to identify and explain the different cultures because the officier involved will have to be able to judge individual situations in real life and a gay scene is something that is usually totally different from a hetero scene in the first place (not to mention the cases where a male is in fact an abuse victim).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Bottom line: if we want to inform and educate others (which is I think what most of us - latent or not - want or would like to see happen) the first question to ask is: what do we want to inform and educate them about?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Former Dutch journalist Hans Meijer is currently chairman of the  www.powerotics.com/hans.html"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Powerotics Foundation&lt;/b&gt;, an organisation dedicated to providing quality information about alternative lifestyles.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/248860116342632818-7237000015497995863?l=esasllqkqfnsei.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://esasllqkqfnsei.blogspot.com/feeds/7237000015497995863/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=248860116342632818&amp;postID=7237000015497995863' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/248860116342632818/posts/default/7237000015497995863'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/248860116342632818/posts/default/7237000015497995863'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://esasllqkqfnsei.blogspot.com/2008/09/is-erotic-power-exchange-culture.html' title='Is Erotic Power Exchange A Culture?'/><author><name>locqb</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10399762416501437223</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-248860116342632818.post-8068870142848045376</id><published>2008-09-09T07:16:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2008-09-09T07:16:37.173-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Comic Heroes - The Hulk TV Series DVD</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;In the release of The Incredible Hulk movie on the big screen, we see reminders of the same titled TV series that aired in late 70's. 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Additionaly, the Six Million Dollar Man and the Bionic Woman did exactly the same thing for similar scenes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Also, not to be forgotten is the Lonely Man theme. This is perhaps one of the catchiest TV tunes ever and it summarizes Dr. Banner's plight with a powerful aura of sadness.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Some of the best episodes:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The Hulk Breaks Las Vegas (Season 1, Episode 6). Dr. Banner witnessed a murder attempt of a journalist who &lt;a href=http://othvuaylu.blogspot.com&gt;Othvuaylu&lt;/a&gt; agreed to help by passing on information to a fellow journalist. It just so happen that the fellow journalist was Jack McGee, the reporter who hounded Dr. Banner for the truth behind the Hulk.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Incredible Hulk Married (Season 2, Episode 1). In the season opener, Dr. Banner found love the for second time around with a brilliant hypnotherapist, Dr. Caroline Fields (played by Mariette Hartley). She tried to help him, but unfortunately, she had her own life crisis as she was on the terminal stage of neurogical disorder.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Prometheus (Season 4, Episodes 1 &amp; 2). Dr. Banner saved a blind woman in the woods where a meteor crashes. He was caught in mid-transformation to the Hulk as a government group called Prometheus was dispatched to investigate the meteor. After seeing the Hulk, they mistook the Hulk to be an alien from another world and attempted to capture him.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; planetcomicbookradio.com"&gt;Planet Comic Book Radio is a weekly talkshow and blog on everything comic books. This include superheroes pop culture such as the  planetcomicbookradio.com/index.php?option=com_content&amp;task=view&amp;id=150&amp;Itemid=119"&gt;Hulk TV series DVD&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/248860116342632818-8068870142848045376?l=esasllqkqfnsei.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://esasllqkqfnsei.blogspot.com/feeds/8068870142848045376/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=248860116342632818&amp;postID=8068870142848045376' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/248860116342632818/posts/default/8068870142848045376'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/248860116342632818/posts/default/8068870142848045376'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://esasllqkqfnsei.blogspot.com/2008/09/comic-heroes-hulk-tv-series-dvd.html' title='Comic Heroes - The Hulk TV Series DVD'/><author><name>locqb</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10399762416501437223</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-248860116342632818.post-6820820502075986220</id><published>2008-09-08T07:25:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2008-09-08T07:25:03.958-07:00</updated><title type='text'>5 Tell Tale Signs You Should Not Buy That Used Car</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;With the overwhelming rate &lt;a href=http://www.saturdaymorning.pop-cult.com/spider-woman.html&gt;Spider-Woman&lt;/a&gt; depreciation on new cars, and the huge selection of bargains, previously owned cars &lt;a href=http://www.shop24-7-365.com/Finance/Mortgage-Refinance-HomeEquity/mortgage-loans.php&gt;mortgagerefinance&lt;/a&gt; the ideal investment in money savings. But there are key elements the consumer must be on the look out for, so that he/she can make a sound purchase without having to deal with the pitfalls of buying a turkey. Here are five simple tips to concentrate on when selecting that used automobile.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;#1-My car is a rental huh? The argument can be made (mostly by the sales consultants) that a well taken care of previous rental, is a smart choice. Those guys will try to upsell you on the idea that they love having those cars, mainly for the reason that rental companies have such an outstanding service record with maintenance. But the pure question is...how did you treat &lt;a href=http://www.saturdaymorning.pop-cult.com/video/spider-man.html&gt;Spider-Man cartoon&lt;/a&gt; last rental? There are some great drivers out there, but let's be honest, the vast majority of them take lousy care of those rentals for the duration. Therefore, putting lots of strain and wear on the most expensive mechanical parts. 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Those cool little decals we spot on windshields mean a lot more to the dealer than just making the consumer, warm and fuzzy. It is designated to dealers as their "hit cars". To them, it's autos that were specifically targeted for immediate sale. Normally, any car that has a decal, is more than likely is an aged unit. Keep in mind, if a car has been on the lot for 90 days, it would seem like they really are willing to deal on em...not so. Pre-owned cars are the money makers in the dealerships stable, they will not sacrifice profit if they know there's a way to snake the consumer. Aged cars have been around for a while, neglected, tired (imagine a car not moving in three months?), and unwanted, so why get hooked by the perceived value? Additionally, there's no chance to get a great price on these, because book values have dropped on a three month old car. Therefore, aged units have had a terrible resale value and are a maintenance nightmare.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;#3-My car didn't start on the test drive, should I be worried? You bet you should! Dead batteries can come from anything. If a car hasn't been started in a while, there's a good chance it has a dead battery. A car's alternator is directly responsible for recharging the battery during normal usage. If the battery is dead, there might be supplemental problems with the ignition and battery charging system. And you know the car hasn't been started on a regular basis. A truly unworthy endeavor that can cost the owner thousands of dollars in repairs, avoid if possible.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;#4-Squeeks, leaks, and rattles. Yeah I know, it's too be expected as automobiles wear out over time. But let's get to the point. If your suspension makes a lot of noise when you drive, this can be a costly fix going well into the thousands. I've had to personally repair bushings, control arms, and rear links on my newly purchased2004 Tahoe 4WD, these cost me over $1500! Mechanics are not cheap by nature, so obviously repairing such items will make the consumer's head spin. The same can be said for leaks and rattles. If you have an oil or coolant leak, it's expensive. Also if your steering column rattles and is loose, it's expensive. If its a must have automobile, twist the dealers' arm into fixing the problems and you should be A-OK. Keep in mind, it's your money they want you to spend there and now, you have the ultimate power of the word...NO.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;#5-And finally, if the desk manager is constantly pointing at the car you SHOULD buy, then don't. It's real simple, dealerships are conditioned to enhance their bottom line. So they'll want to sell the most profitable cars on the lot, even at the cost of upsetting the consumer's wants and needs. Nine times out of ten, the buyer would not even like the chosen car, nor would they be caught dead driving it. You have done the research, and spent the time driving the favorites, buy the car you'll be happy seeing in the driveway for years to come. Think, and don't make the hasty decisions.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I hope I was able to educate and give some good buying tips. Purchasing such an expensive good should not be without all of the important consumer information. These tips are easy to implement, even for the inexperienced. 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It is difficult to imagine and understand, isn't it?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As the mass and energy exploded out space was created. At this time there are billions of stars that are running away from us. The universe is expanding. This is creating more and more space. What lies beyond this space? Is there another cosmos/universe or more space? No body knows the answer to this question. According to Einstein one can never reach the edge of the space. This space is something like the surface of the earth. There are no edges. It folds on itself. So if you start looking or the edge of the space you will come back from where you began. Of course the distances are so vast that it is impossible for any mortal to think of doing this. Billions of light years make a very huge distance. This distance is unimaginable.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Next time you look at the sky begin thinking about the space, the stars and what lies beyond everything. 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